You thought you'd dealt with it. You thought you'd moved on.

And then you saw them again. Or someone mentioned their name. Or a memory showed up out of nowhere — and suddenly all of it was back.

If forgiveness is supposed to be a choice, why does it feel so impossible?

In this message, Vijay Krishnan unpacks why forgiveness is one of the hardest things a human being can do — and why most of the advice we get about it doesn't go nearly deep enough.

🎙️ Want to go deeper? Check out the companion podcast episode — The Difference Between Forgiveness and Reconciliation Nobody Tells You — where Vijay, Jeff Brodie, and Dom Ruso keep the conversation going and get into the difference between forgiveness, reconciliation, and trust.